This is going to be really stressful, no matter what, especially considering all the moving parts involved in planning a wedding. But stick to these three rules of who gets a plus one for your wedding, and it should alleviate stress, simplify the process, and avoid any irritation from the guests.
1. If they are married or in a serious relationship, they get a plus one, as it only makes sense to allow partners to celebrate together.
2. If they are from out of town, they get a plus one, which can help them feel more comfortable in a new environment and enjoy the celebration more fully.
3. If they will not know anyone, or hardly anyone else at the wedding besides you, definitely give them a plus one too, as this will provide them with some companionship and make the event less daunting.
Pro Tip: Make sure to include a place on your RSVP that says, “we have (you fill in the number here before sending) seats reserved in your honor.” This is a gentle way to emphasize to your guests that your seating is limited and that plus ones, or children are/are not included in the arrangements, ultimately guiding your guests on how to respond while also maintaining clarity around your wedding’s capacity.
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